You don't "need" feminism
shut-up-and-reason:

youdontneedfeminism:


whoneedsfeminism:


I need feminism because my dad thinks that me and my mom are perfect examples of all women everywhere…even though the woman he works with climbs mountains in her spare time. 
I need feminism because I shouldn’t have to be scared for my life when my dad shouts at me for telling him he doesn’t have my permission to send my art to people I don’t know. 
I need feminism because my dad met my mom when he kissed her in the dark without her consent and somehow they both find that funny and romantic.
I need third-wave feminism because my dad is racist but pulls the ‘I have a POC friends’ card to explain himself - and the argument is supposed to stop there.
I need feminism because this is a man who constantly tell sme he’s always right, but he never has been - and yet the only person who gets told off is me for daring to argue with him.
I need feminism because I both have no idea and know perfectly well why my mom thought he was worthy to love. 


Alright, brat, let’s tear you a new fucking asshole since apperently your current asshole is not functioning as it should and the shit is piling up inside you where your organs should be. You have shit flowing out of your mouth, metaphorically speaking. So let’s rectify this shit and give you a functioning asshole to get rid of this SHIT you call a thought process.
First, don’t ever use comic sans, holy shit.
Holy fuck, your dad loves you and your mother and thinks you’re perfect. What exactly is the problem here? So you and your mother don’t rock climb… are you suddenly oppressed? I can picture it now - your entire house is a torture chamber for you and your mother. Nope.
Your father shouting at you does not mean he’s going to be physically violent. Holy shit. Has there ever been abuse in your home? No? Then shut the fuck up. A lot of people grew up in physically abusive environments. You are trying to act like you know what it’s like. You don’t. I assure you. So unless your father beats you, you should just calm the fuck down. And seeing as you sound like a teenager, it’s actually quite reasonable that he doesn’t want you mailing things to strangers from the internet from your house. Gee, I wonder why? Maybe because you’re a teenage girl and easy prey. Some guy gets your deviant art shit in the mail, he gets your address, and he turns out to be a serial murdering rapist. Or a stalker. Or a thief. Or a kleptomaniac. How about this? You find a better way to share your art, in a safe way. Mail it from a PO box, maybe? Never give them personal details? Use your head.
And now we get to the best part of your shit-post: You’re implying your parent’s relationship is abusive. Or that he never had consent for anything. God damn, fuck your shit. It’s clear while it wasn’t the ideal start, they have had a lasting relationship, and looking back on it your mother enjoyed it. So stop calling your mother some victim of something, and stop slandering your own father. 
You’re obviously young and have no clue what your father’s friends think about him. Adults are complex. How do you know that his black friend doesn’t agree with him? Have you even considered that? Do you truly understand your father’s opinions or are you projecting them over the internet? 
My father is never right
You’re now all-knowing. You know better than your father. I’ll tell you what - move out. Right now. Come on, you know better than he does, so why do you need him to provide for you? You’re clearly better suited to care for yourself than he is. You’re smarter, right? You seem to have this fantasy that your mother is a battered wife and a victim. You should probably call the cops on your way out the door. 
You make me sick. You’re an ungreatful little shit, and I’d be ashamed of you if you were my child. 


Congratulations. You have won the asshole of the year award for unprecedented assumption-making about a situation you know nothing about and unnecessary belittling of a person you’ve never met. You may collect your trophy and cunt punt/dick kick at the door.

Very hard to take my asshole of the year award seriously when you’re the one advocating violence.
Stay lovely, Tumblr-sphere. 

shut-up-and-reason:

youdontneedfeminism:

whoneedsfeminism:

I need feminism because my dad thinks that me and my mom are perfect examples of all women everywhere…even though the woman he works with climbs mountains in her spare time. 

I need feminism because I shouldn’t have to be scared for my life when my dad shouts at me for telling him he doesn’t have my permission to send my art to people I don’t know. 

I need feminism because my dad met my mom when he kissed her in the dark without her consent and somehow they both find that funny and romantic.

I need third-wave feminism because my dad is racist but pulls the ‘I have a POC friends’ card to explain himself - and the argument is supposed to stop there.

I need feminism because this is a man who constantly tell sme he’s always right, but he never has been - and yet the only person who gets told off is me for daring to argue with him.

I need feminism because I both have no idea and know perfectly well why my mom thought he was worthy to love. 

Alright, brat, let’s tear you a new fucking asshole since apperently your current asshole is not functioning as it should and the shit is piling up inside you where your organs should be. You have shit flowing out of your mouth, metaphorically speaking. So let’s rectify this shit and give you a functioning asshole to get rid of this SHIT you call a thought process.

First, don’t ever use comic sans, holy shit.

Holy fuck, your dad loves you and your mother and thinks you’re perfect. What exactly is the problem here? So you and your mother don’t rock climb… are you suddenly oppressed? I can picture it now - your entire house is a torture chamber for you and your mother. Nope.

Your father shouting at you does not mean he’s going to be physically violent. Holy shit. Has there ever been abuse in your home? No? Then shut the fuck up. A lot of people grew up in physically abusive environments. You are trying to act like you know what it’s like. You don’t. I assure you. So unless your father beats you, you should just calm the fuck down. And seeing as you sound like a teenager, it’s actually quite reasonable that he doesn’t want you mailing things to strangers from the internet from your house. Gee, I wonder why? Maybe because you’re a teenage girl and easy prey. Some guy gets your deviant art shit in the mail, he gets your address, and he turns out to be a serial murdering rapist. Or a stalker. Or a thief. Or a kleptomaniac. How about this? You find a better way to share your art, in a safe way. Mail it from a PO box, maybe? Never give them personal details? Use your head.

And now we get to the best part of your shit-post: You’re implying your parent’s relationship is abusive. Or that he never had consent for anything. God damn, fuck your shit. It’s clear while it wasn’t the ideal start, they have had a lasting relationship, and looking back on it your mother enjoyed it. So stop calling your mother some victim of something, and stop slandering your own father. 

You’re obviously young and have no clue what your father’s friends think about him. Adults are complex. How do you know that his black friend doesn’t agree with him? Have you even considered that? Do you truly understand your father’s opinions or are you projecting them over the internet? 

My father is never right

You’re now all-knowing. You know better than your father. I’ll tell you what - move out. Right now. Come on, you know better than he does, so why do you need him to provide for you? You’re clearly better suited to care for yourself than he is. You’re smarter, right? You seem to have this fantasy that your mother is a battered wife and a victim. You should probably call the cops on your way out the door. 

You make me sick. You’re an ungreatful little shit, and I’d be ashamed of you if you were my child. 

Congratulations. You have won the asshole of the year award for unprecedented assumption-making about a situation you know nothing about and unnecessary belittling of a person you’ve never met. You may collect your trophy and cunt punt/dick kick at the door.

Very hard to take my asshole of the year award seriously when you’re the one advocating violence.

Stay lovely, Tumblr-sphere. 

Someone messaged you a few pages back about agreeing with your position but being disappointed with the quality of your arguments. Of course you gave a flippant response because what else were you going to do, but dude, I agree with them. If you're on the logical side, you shouldn't have to resort to ad hominem. Please stop stooping to their level?

Stop being mean


You’re right.

whoneedsfeminism:

“I need Feminism because I don’t want to be called ‘Creepy’ for being a doll.” I redid the painting on this Barbie doll, and made her look like my favourite pop diva, Miku Hatsune.
I shared it with my group of Roleplaying friends, and since I am a male, they all thought of me as ‘creepy’, ‘gay’, or ‘weird’.
It really hurt how much they made fun of me for it.
So that is why I need Feminism.

It is creepy and you are weird. Facts remain to be seen as to your sexuality, not that I would care. Deal with it.

whoneedsfeminism:

“I need Feminism because I don’t want to be called ‘Creepy’ for being a doll.”
I redid the painting on this Barbie doll, and made her look like my favourite pop diva, Miku Hatsune.

I shared it with my group of Roleplaying friends, and since I am a male, they all thought of me as ‘creepy’, ‘gay’, or ‘weird’.

It really hurt how much they made fun of me for it.

So that is why I need Feminism.

It is creepy and you are weird. Facts remain to be seen as to your sexuality, not that I would care. Deal with it.

Just like that quarter mentioned in the post, OP’s statistic is over a quarter-century old and outdated.

whoneedsfeminism:

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I need feminism because my law degree cost just as much as that guy’s…but my income will be 25% less.

whoneedsfeminism:

I need feminism because…my younger brother should NOT think he can give me orders to follow. I should NOT feel bad for not liking my male friends with unrequited crushes. I should NOT have to worry about how my mother will react to my outfits, and I should NOT be hearing “I don’t mean to sound like a feminist, but…” from my female classmates.
My whole life, it seemed like the world’s implication was that feminists are crazy broads who have a perpetual case of PMS when all they wanted was a fairer world. How sad is this?

So… feminism is going to fix some strange internal dialogue where you feel bad for a simple crush? It won’t.
Actually, you fucking live under her roof. She buys you clothing. She has every right to have reasonable guidelines for how you dress. You don’t have a right to dress like a lady of the night - you do have a right to having adequate clothing.  Since you seem to have that but choose to wear skimpy shit, this is all on you, cupcake. 

whoneedsfeminism:

I need feminism because…my younger brother should NOT think he can give me orders to follow. I should NOT feel bad for not liking my male friends with unrequited crushes. I should NOT have to worry about how my mother will react to my outfits, and I should NOT be hearing “I don’t mean to sound like a feminist, but…” from my female classmates.

My whole life, it seemed like the world’s implication was that feminists are crazy broads who have a perpetual case of PMS when all they wanted was a fairer world. How sad is this?

  1. So… feminism is going to fix some strange internal dialogue where you feel bad for a simple crush? It won’t.
  2. Actually, you fucking live under her roof. She buys you clothing. She has every right to have reasonable guidelines for how you dress. You don’t have a right to dress like a lady of the night - you do have a right to having adequate clothing.  Since you seem to have that but choose to wear skimpy shit, this is all on you, cupcake. 
whoneedsfeminism:

I need feminism because my mother (and many other women) thinks abortion is wrong, even if the pregnant “woman” is a 12 year old girl who was abused by a family member. It terrifies me.

My mom has different views than I do
Fucking too deep.

whoneedsfeminism:

I need feminism because my mother (and many other women) thinks abortion is wrong, even if the pregnant “woman” is a 12 year old girl who was abused by a family member. It terrifies me.

My mom has different views than I do

Fucking too deep.

whoneedsfeminism:

I need feminism because…
I want to get rid of the patriarchy. Because It’s the patriarchy that says men are stupid, monolithic, unchanging and incapable. It’s patriarchy that says men have animalistic instincts and just can’t stop themselves from harassing and assulting. It’s patriarchy that says men can only be attracted by certain qualities, can only have particular kinds of responses, can only experience the world in narrow ways.
Feminism holds that men are capable of more - are more than that.

Careful ladies, we all know what this man is capable of - giving you a night you’ll never forget, complete with multiple orgasms.

whoneedsfeminism:

I need feminism because…

I want to get rid of the patriarchy. Because It’s the patriarchy that says men are stupid, monolithic, unchanging and incapable. It’s patriarchy that says men have animalistic instincts and just can’t stop themselves from harassing and assulting. It’s patriarchy that says men can only be attracted by certain qualities, can only have particular kinds of responses, can only experience the world in narrow ways.

Feminism holds that men are capable of more - are more than that.

Careful ladies, we all know what this man is capable of - giving you a night you’ll never forget, complete with multiple orgasms.

VAWA - Violence Against Women Act expires tonight

mrbeareatschildren:

youdontneedfeminism:

I CANNOT BOTTLE YOUR TEARS FAST ENOUGH, TUMBLR. 

Pro-Tip: when even the ACLU calls your legislation shit, you know you’ve hit rock bottom.

This blog grosses me out so much. I doubt they’ll see this because at one point the blog owner blocked me but seriously HOW can you take joy in the fact that people have lost their protection from their abusers?

I’m sorry but you’re sick. Regardless of your political affiliations you should never rejoice in the fact that people are now at a greater risk.

Also you’re kind of racist considering you support the fact that the bill was shot down. And most people are well aware of the fact that the bill was shot down partially due to the fact that it included more protection for Native American women.

I’ll never understand blogs like these. The anti-equality crowd. You exist solely because you want to continue a system which degrades other people. You’re hurt that someone doesn’t want you to be able to abuse or to treat them like less anymore. 

>The ACLU says the bill violates the rights of accused and creates inequality among victims AND accused.

>ACLU is now the “anti-equality” crowd.

DRINK THE FUCKING KOOLAID.

I fucking love this blog so much. I can't even put into words how absolutely perfect you are. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK.

No I’m everything wrong with the world.

This blog's existence makes me unhealthily happy. I’m glad I’m not the only one who thinks that most of whoneedsfeminism’s posts aren’t really people who need feminism, but people who demonize men and have this crippling victim-complex. The worst thing about that blog is that they keep painting women as these kinds of useless victims who can't protect themselves from the "big, bad men," which, holy shit, is a thousand times more offensive to women (not to mention men) than actual sexism.

Pretty much.